Today’s topic is mainly for the gentlemen and our appreciation for the male species. I grew up in a single parent household with my father and watching his razor sharp grooming process really set the bar for my view of what a well put together man looked like. From the moment he’d poke his head in my room to ask if I could iron a pair of pants for him to when his cologne would float down the stairs as me made his exit. Flaws and all, he was and is utter perfection.
So naturally, my husband would be just as polished. My muse for this blog post is indeed my husband George. #boyfriend #babydaddy #boothang. I’m sure he may be a little embarrassed that I put him out there like this and have plundered in his things to create these photos, BUT I also think he secretly likes it. Like most men do. I love his style, he’s extremely versatile and I’ve witnessed his smart dapper looks and his chill weekend vibes. What I appreciate the most about his aura is that he is usually very well coordinated without the “LOOK AT ME” over the top attitude.
While thinking of all the things I love about him, I wondered if other women had the same quirky thoughts that I do. Soooo I asked them! Guys here’s what the women I asked had to say about their appreciation for you.
GROOMING:
Clean fingernails
Cologne - You must smell nice
Self-Care - Be sure to get your health check-ups
A fresh haircut has an allure all on its own
Fresh Breath is as must
CHARACTER:
A gentleman that is kind enough to make us feel loved but knows when to put us in check
Respectful to all women
A man with manners is certainly a blessing
FASHION:
This is the fun part! Ladies had a lot to say about this topic. Here are some of the fun quotes!
“…..a long sleeve button up and he rolls the sleeves up to about mid-forearm…”
“Pants that are fitted. Not too tight and not too loose. With a nice belt.” “Color also looks good on men!”
“I love a man in a nice tailored suit, traditional colors…”
“I like a nice super white tee.”
“I love a man who’s switch up game is strong….” “Gotta smell good. Clean cut. That grey in the beard is good, I hate that “black-out” beard ish..”
“Definitely cologne! Nothing overpowering.”
“A nice set of teeth with fresh breath to go with it!”
“Polo blue cologne, John Varvatos cologne. I also think men are too scared to accessorize!”
“It’s not about just smelling good and looking good on the outside…how often do you bathe? Let me see your gums!”
“I love nice shoes on a man!”
So there you have it! We love our guys and hopefully this will encourage you gentlemen to keep doing what you’re doing! Thanks for all the worthy input Donnica, Nygeria, Kayla, Amanda, Lynn, Dianne, Sherron, Alissa, Mayah, Nedra, Catrena and Nina!
Until next time!
-K